Something in Matthew Ricci’s gut told him he shouldn’t be in college. He’d grown up in upstate New York and then had gone to nearby Marist College in Poughkeepsie. He’d felt pressure to pick a career, but, as Ricci, now thirty, says, “I had no basis to pick anything. I couldn’t compare one career to another.”
His duty was to study every detail of the ship’s Tomahawk-missile weapons system. He learned how to maintain the Augusta’s nuclear reactor. He had to master so much information so quickly that Ricci compares the process to “trying to drink water coming out of a fire hydrant.” He can’t say where he was during this time. The sub’s course is classified. Ricci says even he wasn’t always told where they were. At times all he knew was that they were somewhere in the waters of the Mediterranean.
As he adapted to navy life, Ricci could feel himself becoming more focused and mature. “I learned the value of following through on your responsibilities,” he says, “and what it means for other people to depend on you.” In 2005, he married and then became a father to a daughter, Gretchen. He left the military four years later, because, he says, he wanted to stay put and help raise his child. “Family life was more important to me,” he says.
Ricci went back to college, at Eastern Connecticut State University, not knowing what to expect after his years away. To his surprise, he thrived. In fact, he was enjoying school so much he transferred to Brown in search of a greater academic challenge.
“I loved that Brown is a liberal place,” he says. The military was a
“conservative culture, so I wanted to steep myself in something
unfamiliar.”
By 2012, Ricci’s marriage was falling apart. “It was not a smooth
process,” he says. “It made my studies much more difficult.” Ricci now
took care of Gretchen on weekends as he pursued a degree in political
science. On days when his ex-wife, who still lived in Connecticut, had
to go to work early, he would drive down from Providence to take
Gretchen to gymnastics, and then make it back to campus in time for a
nine o’clock class.
Gretchen, says Ricci, “was an active participant and witness to her
parent going to college. She understands how special it is to be a
Brown student.” She even joined him on the walk to receive his diploma
at the political science department’s graduation ceremony.
Next Ricci will work for a health-care company outside Los Angeles.
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After her family lost everything to Hurricane Katrina in 2005, G. Maris Jones ’15 reconsidered her dream of going to Brown.
Seventy-eight percent of African malaria victims are children under the age of five. Nicholas Hilton ’15 wants to change that.
Clyde Lawrence ’15 wrote music for Miss Congeniality at age 6. He's also written for Hugh Grant and jammed with Steven Tyler.
Linh Tran ’15 spent two years helping fruit growers in her native Vietnam. She hopes you'll soon be drinking their fruit juice.
Sandra Kimokoti ’15 spent summer of her junior year in Kenya using sport to help girls open up about the challenges in their lives.
Research by Hannah Begley ’15 suggests juries may be quicker to convict on weak evidence for certain pornography charges.
